The importance of a Doula during labour
- Bee Biegelbauer

- Apr 29, 2022
- 5 min read
Updated: Jul 26, 2022
The importance of a Doula during Your labour and birth.
It's important to have a doula during your labour and birth. You may be surprised to learn that even if you're lucky to have a wonderful partner or another family member, having a doula can help make your birthing experience even better. A doula is trained in emotional support, physical comfort measures and many other skills which can make your labour more comfortable and less stressful than it might otherwise be. This article explains why you need one!

Your Doula is there to support you long before labour begins.
Your Doula is there to support you long before labour begins.
In addition to helping you with your birth plan, your Doula will also guide you through the early postpartum period. This means that she can help you prepare for everything from breastfeeding and baby care to how to get a good night’s sleep in a new house or apartment with a newborn baby around. She’ll also be there for emotional support during this time – particularly if one or more of the things in your list of fears has come true!
A Doula can help you prepare for labour and the early postpartum period.
It's important to remember that a Doula does not replace your partner or family members. It's always important for you to have a support team around you throughout your labour, whether it's your partner, mom or dad, sibling or friend. A Doula is simply one extra person who can help with the physical and emotional aspects of labour.
It is also very important for women to have time alone with their partners before birth so they can talk about any fears or concerns they may have about the process and make sure everyone has an open dialogue while still being respectful of each other’s needs.

Sometimes your birth partner is not the best person to be with during labour.
There are times when your birth partner may not be the best person to be with you during labour. Some of these reasons include:
Your partner can't handle the emotional stress of labour.
Your partner can't handle the physical stress of labour.
Your partner is squeamish and cannot handle any mess or blood that comes with childbirth, even if it's just a little bit.
You know your partner will get in the way when you're pushing, so he/she needs to stay out of your way as much as possible until then.
A Doula can act as your voice when you cannot speak for yourself.
Your doula is there to support you. You’ve chosen to have a birth that is as natural and relaxed as possible, but over the course of labour, you may find yourself in positions or situations that make it difficult for you to speak up for yourself. Your doula should be ready and willing to advocate on your behalf when necessary—whether it’s asking the doctor if there are different positions she can try or suggesting an alternative medication than epidural anesthesia (that doesn’t mean that your decision has already been made).
Your doula is there to help you and your partner. It can be difficult for partners not directly involved in labouring themselves—especially if they aren’t familiar with what their partner needs at this point in their journey—and having someone who understands what role they should play right now can ease any confusion or anxiety they might feel.
Your doula is there to advocate for you and make decisions on your behalf when needed. This includes things like making sure everyone knows what decisions have been made about pain relief options or whether certain procedures need to happen before or after delivery of baby; ensuring everyone knows when/if mommy wants glucose during delivery; making sure mommy gets enough fluids during labour; checking with doctors about any questions about care postpartum (this list goes on!).
A Doula can offer a variety of comfort measures for laboring mothers.
For laboring mothers, a doula can offer a variety of comfort measures to ease the pain and discomfort of labour. These include:
Massage
Hot and cold packs (for relief from back pain)
Water (to help you stay hydrated during your labour)
Music (for distraction and relaxation)
Aromatherapy (to promote relaxation)
Additionally, if you're interested in having a water birth or going through an unmedicated birth, your doula can assist with these options.
A Doula provides non-medical support, not medical advice.
A Doula is not a doctor, nurse, midwife or medical professional. Doulas do not diagnose or treat you. They are there to support you and your baby throughout the birthing process by providing non-medical support during labour and birth. Doulas focus on emotional and physical comfort as well as information about options for pain management (for example: massage, water immersion). They also provide advice regarding hospital policies that might affect you such as forms to fill out prior to delivery day so that you can be prepared before going into labour!
A Doula is not only there for your birth, but she is also there after birth.
A Doula is there to support you in many ways. You might think of her as a birth support person, but she is also there post-partum. A doula's presence can help with breastfeeding, baby care and your partner/family relationships.
A doula offers support and encouragement to new mothers during the first days following birth. She will teach you how to care for your newborn baby and how to bond with him or her. She will make sure that everyone knows what his or her role is within the family unit so that everyone has clear expectations of each other’s responsibilities at home.
Even if you're lucky to have a wonderful partner or other family member, having a doula can help make your birthing experience even better.
A doula is a professional who provides continuous physical, emotional, and informational support to a mother before, during and after childbirth. Doulas are specially trained to provide this kind of service because they understand that every woman has unique needs and desires for her birth experience.
Doulas can help moms-to-be with:
Acknowledging the importance of eating healthy foods during pregnancy (and postpartum)
Having an open dialogue about their fears surrounding childbirth
Practicing effective breathing techniques for labour
Being able to talk about their birth plans with friends or family members who may be present at the time of delivery - which can include whether or not you want pain medication used during labour or if you would prefer your partner present instead.
Conclusion
So, what are you waiting for? Make sure to ask your doula about her experience in helping pregnant women. If she is able to provide testimonials from clients that you can contact directly, even better! A good doula will be able to take away some of the anxiety and stress associated with childbirth and make sure that everything goes smoothly during labour so that you can focus on staying calm.


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